Losing a loved one is a harrowing experience. In addition to grieving, you must tie up any loose ends left behind in their life. This balance of processing emotions and taking care of business gets overwhelming and often put off, but it is important that they get tended to. Honor You is here to help you manage the processes that follow a loss by laying out a checklist of the first steps to take after a loved one passes. When possible, delegate settling the deceased’s affairs to close family or friends, so you have multiple channels of support with all the complex tasks that proceed their passing.
A legal pronouncement of death is one of the first steps to acquiring a death certificate, which is a necessity in handling future loose ends. It is required by many companies as a form of proof of loss, including funeral homes. There are different approaches to receiving a legal pronouncement of death, dependent upon the scenario at that time of death. The following are varying situations that people experiencing loss are commonly found in…
Transportation of the body can be a cumbersome step when dealing with death, but it is one that should be confronted quickly. If there is no need for an autopsy, a mortuary or crematorium can retrieve the body. Mortuaries are required by law to inform you of what this will cost over the phone. Once the body is picked up, inform their doctor or the county coroner of their passing.
There are different channels of communication you can use to inform the deceased’s family and friends, including:
Amidst sharing this unfortunate news, make sure to accommodate for the care of any dependents or pets that the deceased person is survived by.
If you had the opportunity to speak with your loved one about their intentions for their funeral or burial ceremony, this step should be less ambiguous. Unfortunately, not everyone is granted this privilege prior to losing someone close to them. Seek out potential instructions that have been left behind by the deceased, and if not, gather close family or friends to have the initial discussion about future ceremonial proceedings. It is essential that the family considers what the deceased would have wanted, what they want, and what they can afford.
Begin to prepare funeral and burial or cremation procedures. If your loved one had a predetermined burial plan, then follow that. If not, you will choose a funeral home and get informed about their offered services. If the individual who passed on was in the military or in a religious or fraternal group, you may qualify for burial benefits or conducted funeral services. You will need all hands-on deck for the funeral arrangements, as a lot is incorporated into a successful service. When planning a funeral, enlist the help of others to ensure you have the following:
You want to make sure your loved one’s belongings are secured. Lock up their car and home to avoid luring any intruders. Tasks like throwing away food left at their home and taking care of their plants will need to be managed to temporarily maintain their place. Remove or lock up any jewelry or prized items in the home. Again, make sure any pets are accounted for and taken care of.
A forwarding order should be placed at the post office to default your address for mail intended for the deceased. This will avoid signaling an empty property by preventing a stack of mail from piling up in front of their home. This step also indicates any subscriptions or accounts that need to be cancelled.
If your loved one was employed at the time of death, speak with their employer. Inquire about benefits and if there are any due paychecks. Ask for all relevant information regarding death of an employee, as some businesses have a company-wide life insurance policy.
Having copies of the death certificate will be imperative when dealing with insurers, banks, and government agencies. You can usually obtain the original copy from the funeral home that the services took place at.
These are accounts that you will want to cancel, as some can lead to unnecessary charges or identity fraud if left untouched for too long. In order to cancel most of these accounts, you will need to have a copy of the death certificate.
The first steps taken after a loved one passes can be some of the hardest. Tending to bureaucratic tasks is not typically the first thing folks wish to do while grieving a loss. Honor You recognizes the importance and complexity of these tasks and offers to lighten the load in seeking out memorial products. Contact us today to see how you can honor the memory of your loved one.